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BAYANLAR BAYLAR, HANIMLAR BEYLER; KAR\u015eINIZDA \u201cKADIN\u201d<\/h2>\n

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BAYANLAR BAYLAR, HANIMLAR BEYLER; KAR\u015eINIZDA \u201cKADIN\u201d<\/a>
\n<\/em><\/strong>(Spotify Podcast’te sesimden dinlemek i\u00e7in ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0131klayabilirsiniz)<\/em><\/p>\n

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Kad\u0131n erkek e\u015fit haklara sahip olsun diye y\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00f6yler, u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r dururuz ancak bu, bizlerin g\u00f6remeyece\u011fi kadar uzak bir s\u00fcre\u00e7. Belki ancak Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131ndan sonraki Alfa ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rebilir, kestirmek g\u00fc\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n

Zira D\u00fcnya Ekonomik Forumu\u00a0(WEF) \u201cK\u00fcresel Cinsiyet\u00a0E\u015fitsizli\u011fi\u00a02021\u201d raporu, biliyorsunuz\u00a0<\/em>cinsiyet\u00a0e\u015fitsizli\u011fine\u00a0ili\u015fkin fark\u0131n kapat\u0131labilmesi i\u00e7in 135 y\u0131la ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu ortaya koyuyor.\u00a0<\/em>Tabi bu durum b\u00f6lgelere g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fiyor ancak, bizde bu anki halimize bak\u0131nca herhalde en az 200 seneyi bulur, demek abart\u0131 olmaz, bilakis belki az bile kal\u0131r. Ortado\u011fu’nun ve \u00f6zellikle T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin her a\u00e7\u0131dan geli\u015fimini geciktirmekle me\u015fgul eller, y\u0131llard\u0131r i\u015f ba\u015f\u0131nda malum.<\/em><\/p>\n

Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bu yolda toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fini sa\u011flamak amac\u0131yla at\u0131lan her ad\u0131m sonraki ku\u015faklar i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli… Her d\u00f6nem g\u00fcndemlerimizi ziyadesiyle me\u015fgul eden, g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda, i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan \u201cbayan\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131m\u0131na bu anlamda son kez yer vermek istedim. Kimi diyor ki feministler, bayan s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kullan\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyor, kimi diyor ki efendim kad\u0131n s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kaba kal\u0131yor, kimi de \u201ceski\u201d s\u0131fat\u0131n\u0131n tamlamalardaki yanl\u0131\u015f konumland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi \u201cbayan\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fru oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yor. Yanl\u0131\u015fta \u0131srar edip inan\u0131nca, o yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 do\u011fruya \u00e7evirmek de daha zor oluyor, yanl\u0131\u015f bilgi kemikle\u015fiyor.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bir kere bu yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131m\u0131n, bu s\u0131ralanan hi\u00e7bir gerek\u00e7eyle ilgisi yok. Neyle ilgisi var? T\u00fcrk dilinin do\u011fru kullan\u0131lmas\u0131yla… Bu kadar basit. T\u00fcrk\u00e7eyi do\u011fru kullanmas\u0131n\u0131 bilen, zaten \u201cbayan\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de, \u201ckad\u0131n\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de, \u201chan\u0131m\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de vb hepsini dilin kullan\u0131m kurallar\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi yerine g\u00f6re do\u011fru kullan\u0131yor. Bu kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayanlar ve yanl\u0131\u015fta \u0131srarc\u0131lar do\u011fru bilgiden yoksun olanlar\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Gelin birlikte bakal\u0131m.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00fcrk dilinde;<\/em><\/p>\n

Erkek s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 Kad\u0131n<\/em><\/p>\n

Bay s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 Bayan<\/em><\/p>\n

Bey s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 Han\u0131m<\/em><\/p>\n

Beyefendi s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 Han\u0131mefendi<\/em><\/p>\n

O\u011flan s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 K\u0131z<\/em><\/p>\n

Bu kadar basit, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 dilimizin kurallar\u0131na g\u00f6re b\u00f6yledir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, hangi s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kullanacaksak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki s\u00f6zc\u00fckte de ge\u00e7erli oluyorsa, kullanabiliyorsak do\u011fru, ama kullanam\u0131yorsak yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131yoruz demektir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l ki “Han\u0131m giri\u015fimci” olamazsa “Bey giri\u015fimci” de olamaz.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l ki “Bayan \u015fof\u00f6r” olamazsa “Bay \u015fof\u00f6r” de olamaz.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l ki “Bayan milletvekili” olamazsa, “Bay milletvekili” de olamaz.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l ki “Bayanlar Basketbol Ligi” olamazsa, “Baylar Basketbol Ligi” de olamaz.<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki ne ise o\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

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Dilimizin yayg\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndand\u0131r, bilmeyenlerin yanl\u0131\u015f kullanmas\u0131yla yayg\u0131nla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Belirtti\u011fim gibi baz\u0131s\u0131 da -ki hat\u0131r\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131r bir \u00e7o\u011funluk- “kad\u0131n” s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn komiktir ama kullan\u0131m olarak “kaba” oldu\u011funu bile ileri s\u00fcrecek kadar i\u015fi alakas\u0131z bir zemine s\u00fcr\u00fcklemi\u015ftir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Halbuki ne kaba olmas\u0131yla ne feminizmle ne de ba\u015fka bir bahaneyle ilgisi vard\u0131r. Bilgisizlikten. Bilen zaten do\u011fru kullan\u0131yor.<\/em><\/p>\n

“Bay tuvaleti” olamayaca\u011f\u0131 gibi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki s\u00f6zc\u00fck olan “Bayan tuvaleti” de olmaz. Kad\u0131n tuvaleti, erkek tuvaleti olmal\u0131 do\u011frusu, bir di\u011fer yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131mda oldu\u011fu gibi…<\/em><\/p>\n

Erkek s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn dilimizde kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ‘kad\u0131n’d\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0130lla cinsiyet belirtilecekse yukar\u0131da payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00f6rneklerin d\u00fczeltmesi anlam\u0131nda; “Kad\u0131n giri\u015fimci \u2013 Erkek giri\u015fimci”, “Kad\u0131n \u015fof\u00f6r \u2013 Erkek \u015fof\u00f6r”, “Kad\u0131n milletvekili \u2013 Erkek milletvekili”, “Kad\u0131nlar Basketbol Ligi \u2013 Erkekler Basketbol Ligi” elbette do\u011frusudur. \u00a0Bay diyebiliyor muyuz bu kullan\u0131mlar\u0131n herhangi birinde, oluyor mu? Olmuyor. Olmuyorsa bayan da kullanamay\u0131z, yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131md\u0131r. Bu kadar basit.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir kez daha s\u00f6yleyelim b\u0131kmadan, dilimizde “kad\u0131n” s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 “erkek”tir. Bayan de\u011fil. \u201cBayan\u201d, \u201cbay\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n

Han\u0131m s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 da “bey”dir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bayan kullan\u0131mlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k gelen Bay s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ile kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da “uygun” d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorsa kullanabiliriz, neyse kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k gelen o…<\/em><\/p>\n

Hepsinin kullan\u0131m\u0131 elbette ki var ve yeri ayr\u0131…<\/em><\/p>\n

K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu, o\u011flan \u00e7ocu\u011fu gibi…<\/em><\/p>\n

Tabi kad\u0131n\u0131 ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran, \u00f6tekile\u015ftiren ve terbiye etme c\u00fcretine varan kendini terbiye edememi\u015f erkek egemen bilgisiz zihniyetin etkisine hi\u00e7 de\u011finmiyorum dahi…<\/em><\/p>\n

Onlar, “han\u0131m giri\u015fimci”, “han\u0131m karde\u015fim”, “han\u0131m kad\u0131n” gibi kullan\u0131mlar\u0131ndan kendilerini ele veriyorlar.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bir de dillere pelesenk olan \u201ckad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u201d s\u00f6ylemi var ki, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n eminim ki avaz avaz \u201cerkeklerimiz\u201d diye kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k veresi geliyor, nedir bu sahiplenme hevesi anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r gibi de\u011fil\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0130\u015f insan\u0131 kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 ise en az 15 y\u0131ld\u0131r s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz herhalde, ancak 3-4 sene \u00f6nce ba\u015flayabildi. Hen\u00fcz yeni yeni k\u0131p\u0131rdanmaya, dernek adlar\u0131nda da tek t\u00fck de olsa d\u00fczeltilmeye ba\u015fland\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00fcrk Sanayici ve \u0130\u015f \u0130nsanlar\u0131 Derne\u011fi art\u0131k, T\u00dcS\u0130AD’\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 biliyorsunuz. K\u0131saltma ayn\u0131 kald\u0131, a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirildi Ba\u015fkan Erol Bilecik d\u00f6neminde… \u00d6rnek te\u015fkil etti ve \u00f6nc\u00fc oldu tabi, bug\u00fcn epey bir STK, bu d\u00fczeltmeleri yap\u0131yor art\u0131k kurulu\u015f isimlerinde…<\/em><\/p>\n

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Yani i\u015f \u00f6nce, insan\u0131n konu\u015ftu\u011fu “ana dili” do\u011fru bilmesi ve do\u011fru kullanmas\u0131ndan, diline sahip \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131ndan ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nihayetinde OECD’nin PISA raporu sonu\u00e7lar\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz ki T\u00fcrkiye’de “kendi ana dilinde okudu\u011funu anlamayan” bir nesil geliyor. Endi\u015fe verici bir y\u00fczdesi var, az buz de\u011fil… Dil giderse geriye biz de kalmay\u0131z. Dil de dili do\u011fru \u00f6\u011fretebilmek de o kadar \u00f6nemli\u2026<\/em>\u00a0Ruhu \u015fad olsun, T\u00fcrk Einstein lakapl\u0131 Prof. Dr. Oktay Sinano\u011flu\u2019nun zaman\u0131nda alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ize \u00e7ize s\u00f6yledi\u011fi gibi: \u201c<\/em>Bir \u00fclke i\u015fgal edilebilir, kurtulabilir; ama e\u011fer bir milletin kimli\u011fi, benli\u011fi,\u00a0dili\u00a0giderse, kaybolursa,<\/em>\u00a0tarihten silinir.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a, g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e, duyduk\u00e7a dilimizdeki yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131mlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeye devam; ta ki yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131mlar\u0131 do\u011fruya \u00e7evirene, zihniyetleri do\u011frultana dek han\u0131mlar, beyler…<\/em><\/p>\n

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Aylin Onart
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BAYANLAR BAYLAR, HANIMLAR BEYLER; KAR\u015eINIZDA \u201cKADIN\u201d BAYANLAR BAYLAR, HANIMLAR BEYLER; KAR\u015eINIZDA \u201cKADIN\u201d (Spotify Podcast’te sesimden dinlemek i\u00e7in ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0131klayabilirsiniz) Kad\u0131n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[73],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-410","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler-tr-makaleler-tr"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/410","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=410"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/410\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":411,"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/410\/revisions\/411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=410"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=410"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=410"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}