{"id":373,"date":"2025-01-16T07:29:34","date_gmt":"2025-01-16T07:29:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/?p=373"},"modified":"2025-01-16T07:29:34","modified_gmt":"2025-01-16T07:29:34","slug":"siddeti-onlemek-icin-daha-ne-bekliyoruz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seal.ergucu.com\/?p=373","title":{"rendered":"\u015e\u0130DDET\u0130 \u00d6NLEMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N DAHA NE BEKL\u0130YORUZ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"body_resize\">\n<div class=\"left\">\n<div id=\"yazi\">\n<h2>\u015e\u0130DDET\u0130 \u00d6NLEMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N DAHA NE BEKL\u0130YORUZ?<\/h2>\n<p><strong><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/aylin_yeni_onart.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"112\" height=\"133\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/0n90qCp3R4lQQ72O8TZOeS\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u015e\u0130DDET\u0130 \u00d6NLEMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N DAHA NE BEKL\u0130YORUZ?<br \/>\n<\/a>(Spotify Podcast&#8217;te sesimden dinlemek i\u00e7in ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0131klayabilirsiniz.)<\/p>\n<p><em>2020\u2019li y\u0131llara geldik, d\u00f6nem itibar\u0131yla\u00a0<strong>sanayi 4.0<\/strong>\u00a0yans\u0131malar\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131k iyiden iyiye uygulanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnlere do\u011fru bir gidi\u015fat var \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde\u2026 Yapay zekalar, insans\u0131 robotlar, nesnelerin interneti vb derken deri alt\u0131na enjekte edilen\u00a0<strong>\u00e7ip kimlikler<\/strong>\u00a0de korona salg\u0131n\u0131yla birlikte insan hayat\u0131na h\u0131zla dahil olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. B\u00f6yle bir teknolojik geli\u015fmenin ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemde hala daha\u00a0<strong>kad\u0131nlara y\u00f6nelik erkek \u015fiddetini hatta art\u0131k erkek vah\u015fetini<\/strong>\u00a0konu\u015fuyor, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n hayatta kalmas\u0131, korunmas\u0131, erkeklerin de ceza almas\u0131, e\u011fitilmesi gerekti\u011fini anlat\u0131yoruz, \u00fcstelik de hala tane tane anlat\u0131yoruz. B\u00f6ylesi u\u00e7larda bir toplumsal tezat m\u0131 yoksa ikiy\u00fczl\u00fcl\u00fck m\u00fc desek?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00dcst\u00fcne \u00fcstl\u00fck \u015fiddete meyilli erkek, g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde olan,\u00a0<strong>n\u00fcfuzlu ve pop\u00fcler bir erkekse<\/strong>\u00a0korunup kollan\u0131yor, aklanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor veya ortal\u0131k derin bir sessizli\u011fe g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bunu; hukuki s\u00fcreci her ikisinde de devam eden ve sonucu beklenen Ozan G\u00fcven-Deniz Bulutsuz olay\u0131nda ve hemen \u00f6ncesinde bas\u0131na yans\u0131yan \u0130smail K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckkaya-Eda Demirci olay\u0131nda da g\u00f6rd\u00fck, mahkeme karar\u0131 ge\u00e7en y\u0131l belli olan Ahmet Kural-S\u0131la ve daha bir dizi benzer erkek \u015fiddeti olay\u0131nda da g\u00f6rd\u00fck.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/g%C3%B6rsel_4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"323\" height=\"305\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>\u015eiddet g\u00f6ren kad\u0131n\u0131n, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u015fiddeti a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 hi\u00e7 kolay bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 de\u011fil, sessiz kalmay\u0131p dile getiren her bir kad\u0131n, kendi insan hakk\u0131 i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele etmesinin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, asl\u0131nda t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar ve erkek \u015fiddetinin me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmamas\u0131 ad\u0131na ciddi bir ad\u0131m atm\u0131\u015f oluyor. Erkek \u015fiddetine maruz kalan kad\u0131n, sessiz kalm\u0131yorsa, toplumun her bir bireyi de sessiz kalmamal\u0131 ve tepki g\u00f6stermeli&#8230; \u00d6zellikle de art\u0131k erkekler, tepkilerini ortaya koymal\u0131, ses vermeli\u2026<br \/>\nSessiz kal\u0131nan, hele de tan\u0131d\u0131k, dost kontenjan\u0131ndan olunca kayr\u0131lan, taraf olunan durumlar erkek \u015fiddetini me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131ran zemini sa\u011flamla\u015ft\u0131rmak demektir. Samimiyeti sorgulat\u0131r, inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yitirir. \u015eiddet kimden gelirse gelsin herkesin k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7izgisi olmal\u0131\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u015e\u00fcphesiz, her zaman b\u0131kmadan, usanmadan, zihinlere nak\u015foluncaya kadar dile getirilece\u011fi gibi, bu bir\u00a0<strong>kad\u0131n meselesi<\/strong>\u00a0de\u011fil,\u00a0<strong>insan haklar\u0131<\/strong>\u00a0meselesi,\u00a0<strong>toplumun gelece\u011finin<\/strong>\u00a0meselesi&#8230;<br \/>\nVe \u015f\u00fcphesiz, \u015fiddetin her t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 olunmal\u0131, kad\u0131na, erke\u011fe, hayvana ve dahi t\u00fcm canl\u0131lara \u015fiddete hay\u0131r! Ancak y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00fcregelen \u201cerkek \u015fiddetini\u201d kabul edip dile getirmekten geri durmamal\u0131; zira kad\u0131na \u015fiddet de\u011fil,\u00a0<strong>erkek \u015fiddeti<\/strong>\u00a0hatta\u00a0<strong>erkek vah\u015feti<\/strong>\u00a0var art\u0131k, bu \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k. P\u0131nar G\u00fcltekin\u2019i izah edilemeyecek bir vah\u015fetle \u00f6ld\u00fcren ve itiraf ederek tutuklanan Cemal Metin Avc\u0131 gibi caniler var. Onun i\u00e7in diyoruz; \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi ya\u015fat\u0131r, Erkek \u015eiddeti \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Bir kereden bir \u015fey olmaz&#8221;, &#8220;K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn r\u0131zas\u0131 vard\u0131&#8221;, \u201cHalk destekliyor, \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fta evlili\u011fe af gelmeli\u201d, \u201cErkek vurursa tepki vermeyin, uzakla\u015f\u0131n. Odan\u0131za \u00e7ekilin\u201d, \u201cKad\u0131n herkesin i\u00e7inde kahkaha atmayacak\u201d, \u201c\u00dcvey k\u0131z evlat dedeye hel\u00e2ldir\u201d gibi akla zarar bu ve benzeri s\u00f6ylemler de erkek \u015fiddetini me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131rmaktan, toplum ahlak\u0131n\u0131 bozmaktan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Erkek \u015fiddetine de ses vermeliyiz, istismar\u0131na da\u2026 Devletin asli ve \u00f6ncelikli g\u00f6revlerinden biri de, bireylerin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n cinsel istismara maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fartlar\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmak, koruyucu ve \u00f6nleyici hizmetleri kurumsalla\u015ft\u0131rmak de\u011fil midir zaten?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u015eiddet; maruz kalan kad\u0131n\u0131n itibar\u0131n\u0131<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>de\u011fil; zihinleri \u015fiddet g\u00f6stermeye kodlanm\u0131\u015f\u00a0<strong>erke\u011fin itibar\u0131n\u0131<\/strong>\u00a0yerle bir eder, bu kadar a\u00e7\u0131k. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u015fiddete meyilli oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00f6zellikle toplum \u00f6n\u00fcndeki\u00a0<strong>pop\u00fcler erkeklerin<\/strong>\u00a0dillerine pelesenk olan kariyerlerinin bitirilmesi mevzundan korkmalar\u0131 yerine \u00f6ncelikle,\u00a0<strong>insan<\/strong>\u00a0olarak bu d\u00fcnyaya geldiklerini idrak etmelerinde fayda var ve dahi \u015fiddet g\u00f6steren t\u00fcm erkeklerin\u2026\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u0130STANBUL S\u00d6ZLE\u015eMES\u0130 YA\u015eATIR<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Son g\u00fcnlerde kad\u0131nlara ve k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetle m\u00fccadelenin ulusal ve uluslararas\u0131 zeminini olu\u015fturan \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019nden T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcnde haz\u0131rl\u0131klar oldu\u011fu konu\u015fuluyor.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/g%C3%B6rsel_1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"650\" height=\"366\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Bak\u0131n, \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019nin kald\u0131r\u0131lmak istendi\u011fi bug\u00fcnlerde,\u00a0<strong>3 g\u00fcnde 8 kad\u0131n cinayeti<\/strong>\u00a0i\u015flenmi\u015f. \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi uygulansayd\u0131 bu kad\u0131nlar hayatta olacakt\u0131. Zira \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019nin imzaland\u0131\u011f\u0131, 6284\u2019\u00fcn g\u00fcndeme geldi\u011fi 2011 senesine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, kad\u0131n cinayetlerinin en az oldu\u011fu sene oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Meclisin imzalad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ahde vefa olan \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi de insan haklar\u0131 da bir m\u00fczakere konusu de\u011fildir. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n e\u015fit haklarla ya\u015famas\u0131 i\u00e7in, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi i\u00e7in \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi \u015fart\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Zihinlerimizi tazeleyecek olursak biliyorsunuz, 11 May\u0131s 2011&#8217;de \u0130stanbul&#8217;da imzaya a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 nedeniyle k\u0131saca &#8220;\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8221; olarak biliniyor. 2014 y\u0131l\u0131nda y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe giriyor ve Temmuz 2020 itibariyle 46 \u00fclke ve Avrupa Birli\u011fi taraf\u0131ndan imzalan\u0131yor. \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi i\u00e7in 12 Mart 2020&#8217;de ilk imzac\u0131 \u00fclke T\u00fcrkiye oluyor. Kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet ve aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddetin \u00f6nlenmesi ve bunlarla m\u00fccadeleye dair Avrupa Konseyi S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi-\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi ve bu s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye dayanarak \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lan 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 \u201cAilenin korunmas\u0131 ve kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddetin \u00f6nlenmesine dair kanun\u201d \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131n korunmas\u0131n\u0131n bir g\u00fcvencesidir. Yo\u011fun \u00e7abalarla kazan\u0131lan bu haklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilelim, sahip \u00e7\u0131kal\u0131m ve kullanal\u0131m.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Bir platform olu\u015ftu; TCK 103 Kad\u0131n Platformu\u2026<br \/>\nBu konuda gece g\u00fcnd\u00fcz demeden m\u00fcthi\u015f bir \u00f6zveriyle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<br \/>\nHem \u015fiddete hem de istismara kar\u015f\u0131 ciddi bir m\u00fccadele veriyor.<br \/>\n9 Temmuz 2020\u2019de platform olarak yapt\u0131klar\u0131 ilk bas\u0131n toplant\u0131s\u0131nda; \u201c\u00c7ocuk cinsel istismar\u0131 faillerine y\u00f6nelik af giri\u015fimlerinden, \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019ni ve 6284&#8217;\u00fc karalamaktan, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kazan\u0131lm\u0131\u015f haklar\u0131n\u0131 tehdit etmekten vazge\u00e7in, \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;ni uygulay\u0131n\u201d diyerek bu olu\u015fumu duyuran platformda\u00a0<strong>300\u2019e yak\u0131n\u00a0<\/strong>kad\u0131n derne\u011fi bulunuyor.\u00a0<strong>\u201c\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019ne kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak \u015fiddet\u00e7i erkeklere te\u015fvik, t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlara tehdittir\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0s\u00f6z\u00fcnden hareketle son derece programl\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcyorlar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131\u2026 A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 bu geni\u015f kat\u0131l\u0131ml\u0131 platforma destek veren, imza veren 300\u2019e yak\u0131n kad\u0131n dernekleri, muhtelif olu\u015fumlar aras\u0131nda bilinen baz\u0131 kad\u0131n derneklerinin olmamas\u0131 dikkatimi \u00e7ekti. \u015eimdi destek vermeyeceksiniz de ne zaman destek vereceksiniz, diye sormak isterim her birine, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 yani hemcinslerimizi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ilgilendiren bir konuda geri durmak niye?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>TCK 103 Kad\u0131n Platformu\u2019nu takip edin l\u00fctfen, \u00f6zellikle erkek \u015fiddetine dair sesleri \u00e7\u0131kmayan, konuyu her daim kulak arkas\u0131na atan erkekler, sizler takip edin ve emek verilen m\u00fccadeleyi g\u00f6r\u00fcn, hissetmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Konuyu \u201ckad\u0131n-erkek\u201d \u00fczerinden de\u011fil, insan haklar\u0131 \u00fczerinden art\u0131k okuyun.<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>ERKEK ISLAH VE E\u011e\u0130T\u0130M MERKEZLER\u0130<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Hep diyorum, yine payla\u015fmak isterim: \u015eiddet g\u00f6ren kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in Kad\u0131n S\u0131\u011f\u0131nma Merkezleri yerine \u015fiddet uygulayan erkekler i\u00e7in\u00a0<strong>Erkek Islah ve E\u011fitim Merkezleri<\/strong>\u00a0a\u00e7\u0131lmal\u0131\u2026 \u015eiddet e\u011filimlisi erkekler bu merkezde zihniyet geli\u015fimlerini tamamlamal\u0131\u2026 Yoksa bu i\u015f hi\u00e7bir zaman i\u00e7in had\u0131mla, idamla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmez; n\u00f6rolog, sosyolog, psikolog, ileti\u015fimci gibi ilgili t\u00fcm disiplinlerin kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131yla kurulacak bir uzmanlar kurulu deste\u011fiyle a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gereken bir sorun,\u00a0<strong>zihniyet de\u011fi\u015fimiyle<\/strong>\u00a0\u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gereken bir sorun,\u00a0<strong>yasalar\u0131n uygulanmas\u0131yla<\/strong>\u00a0\u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclecek bir sorun.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019nde de yer alan bir\u00a0<strong>e\u011fitim seferberli\u011fi<\/strong>\u00a0de ilan edilmeli ivedilikle\u2026 Anaokulundan ba\u015flayarak \u00fcniversiteye kadar \u00e7ocuklara; insan haklar\u0131, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi, fiziksel ve psikolojik \u015fiddet, zorbal\u0131k, cinsellik, cinsiyet\u00e7i dil ve cinsel \u015fiddet \u00fczerine e\u011fitimlerle \u2018fark\u0131ndal\u0131k\u2019 kazand\u0131rmal\u0131\u2026 Ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6nderdikleri okullardan \u0131srarla bu e\u011fitimleri talep etmeli\u2026\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/g%C3%B6rsel_2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"272\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Zihniyet geli\u015fimi demi\u015fken, Tayfun Atay\u2019\u0131n\u00a0<strong>\u201cEzilmi\u015f erke\u011fin iniltisi\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131nda payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi:\u00a0<strong>\u201c<\/strong>Erkekler, \u2018erkeklik k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn hem \u00fcreticisi hem de \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc; ataerkil \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcn\u00fcn hem sahibi hem k\u00f6lesi. Her an \u2018elden gitme\u2019 tehlikesi ve kayg\u0131s\u0131 nedeniyle\u00a0<strong>\u2018erkeklik\u2019<\/strong>\u00a0bir erkek i\u00e7in; ne kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in oldu\u011fu gibi tamamen d\u0131\u015fsal ne de i\u015fte tam anlam\u0131yla erke\u011fe i\u00e7sel bir\u00a0<strong>\u2018kapasite\u2019<\/strong>. Erke\u011fin erkekli\u011fi hep s\u0131nama ve tehdit alt\u0131nda.\u00a0<strong>Tehdit<\/strong>, kad\u0131nlardan de\u011fil, di\u011fer erkeklerden gelmekte. Bu y\u00fczden\u00a0<strong>\u2018erkek erke\u011fin kurdudur\u2019\u00a0<\/strong>demek de\u00a0<strong>\u2018erke\u011fin kurdu kendinden olur\u2019<\/strong>\u00a0demek de m\u00fcmk\u00fcn\u2026 Erkekler ba\u015ftan yeniktir. Bir erke\u011fin hayat\u0131 bir bak\u0131ma ta en ba\u015ftan ma\u011flubu\u00a0(elbette mahk\u00fbmu\/mahpusu\u00a0da) oldu\u011fu\u00a0<strong>erkeklik kimli\u011fi<\/strong>\u00a0kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki bu yeniklik \u00a0durumundan kurtulmak\u00a0i\u00e7in k\u0131vranmalarla ge\u00e7er. Bu\u00a0s\u00fcre\u00e7te bir\u00a0<strong>\u2018mask\u00fclin d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmlenme\u2019<\/strong>, kar\u015f\u0131 cinse ve\u00a0hemcinsine y\u00f6nelik iki u\u00e7lu\u00a0bir \u00e7atal olarak kendini g\u00f6sterir.<strong>\u201d\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0\u0130\u015fte bu y\u00f6nde bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve iyile\u015fmeyi de beraberinde getirecektir zihniyet geli\u015fimi\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Bir \u00e7ok istatistiki bilgi var elimizde\u2026 Rakamlar, i\u015fin vahametini ve realiteyi her zaman \u00e7ok net ortaya koyar, zira \u00f6l\u00e7medi\u011fimiz hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi iyile\u015ftiremeyiz, y\u00f6netemeyiz.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>BM N\u00fcfus Fonu UNFPA taraf\u0131ndan Haziran sonunda yay\u0131nlanan rapora g\u00f6re;<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce evlendirilen her 3 \u00e7ocuktan 1&#8217;i yine \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fta, 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce anne olmak durumunda kald\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/g%C3%B6rsel_3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"274\" \/><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hacettepe \u00dcniversitesi ve Adalet Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2019n\u0131n verilerine g\u00f6re; T\u00fcrkiye genelinde kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %9\u2019u 15 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce cinsel istismara maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtmi\u015f.<br \/>\n20-24 ya\u015f grubunda olup 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce evlendirilen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n oran\u0131 %14,7.<br \/>\nEvlilik kararlar\u0131n\u0131n %46\u2019s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iftlerin aileleri alm\u0131\u015f. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %33\u2019\u00fc kendileri hen\u00fcz \u00e7ocukken anne olmu\u015flar. \u00c7ocu\u011fa y\u00f6nelik cinsel istismar su\u00e7u,\u00a0<strong>son 8 y\u0131l\u0131n en tepe noktas\u0131<\/strong>na ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f. Ceza mahkemelerinde \u00e7ocu\u011fa cinsel istismar su\u00e7undan\u00a0<strong>28 bin 360 dava\u00a0<\/strong>a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Y\u00dcZYILLARDIR S\u00dcREGELEN ERKEK \u015e\u0130DDET\u0130<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Ve Istanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019nin kald\u0131r\u0131lmak istendi\u011fi bug\u00fcnlerde,\u00a0<strong>3 g\u00fcnde 8 kad\u0131n cinayeti<\/strong>\u00a0i\u015flenmi\u015f. Baz\u0131 erkekler de var ki, \u015fiddet\/vah\u015fet uygulayan erke\u011fi hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karma \u00e7abalar\u0131 bir yana; erkek \u015fiddetini kad\u0131n \u015fiddetiyle mukayese ediyor. Diyorlar ki; erke\u011fe \u015fiddet uygulayan kad\u0131nlar da var. Vard\u0131r ancak asla k\u0131yas kabul etmez, erkek \u015fiddetinde oldu\u011fu gibi g\u00fcnlere, haftalara, aylara ve y\u0131llara yay\u0131lan istatistiki veriler ortaya koyabiliyor musunuz? Y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00fcregelen erkek \u015fiddetini niye kabul edip dile getiremiyor, erkek \u015fiddetinin k\u00f6keninde yatan nedenleri niye sorgulam\u0131yorsunuz? Mukayeseye tabi tutulamayacak \u015fiddeti bile insan haklar\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u201ce\u015fit\u201d seviyeden alg\u0131layamamak, yetersiz eril zihniyetin g\u00f6stergesi\u2026 Zihinlerde hep kad\u0131n-erkek ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Onun i\u00e7in Mart say\u0131s\u0131ndaki yaz\u0131mda; 8 Martlar\u0131 toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi ve insan haklar\u0131 ekseninde\u00a0<strong>\u201c8 Mart D\u00fcnya \u0130nsanlar G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d\u00a0<\/strong>olarak kutlayal\u0131m, var m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? diye sordum. Bitirelim bu \u015fiddeti, ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, e\u015fitleyelim t\u00fcm haklar\u0131 ve gelsin 8 Mart D\u00fcnya \u0130nsanlar G\u00fcn\u00fc, ne dersiniz beyler?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ya\u015fananlar da veriler de ger\u00e7ekleri buz gibi g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne seriyor, vaziyet ortada\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Bir devletin\u00a0varl\u0131\u011f\u0131, milletinin ya\u015famas\u0131 ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 de\u011fil mi, \u015fu me\u015fhur:<br \/>\n\u201c\u0130nsan\u0131 ya\u015fat ki devlet ya\u015fas\u0131n\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcnde i\u015faret etti\u011fi gibi\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>O halde ne bekliyoruz?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi ya\u015fat\u0131r. Erkek \u015fiddeti \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Niye \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019ni bir an \u00f6nce uygulam\u0131yoruz?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Aylin ONART<br \/>\nDevir Dergisi<br \/>\nTemmuz 2020<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>(T\u00fcm yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 Spotify, Google ve Apple Podcast&#8217;te sesimden dinleyebilirsiniz.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=6boO-HFNuRw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/1_pod_logos_yube_2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"550\" height=\"135\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<table id=\"tntables\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"5\" cellpadding=\"10\" align=\"center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td align=\"center\" valign=\"middle\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><a class=\"fancybox\" title=\"On-Art :: Sayfa 1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/aylin-onart-devir-dergisi-temmuz-2020-1.jpg\" data-fancybox-group=\"gallery\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.on-art.net\/tn.php?img=pictures\/aylin-onart-devir-dergisi-temmuz-2020-1.jpg&amp;s=120\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<td align=\"center\" valign=\"middle\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><a class=\"fancybox\" title=\"On-Art :: Sayfa 2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/aylin-onart-devir-dergisi-temmuz-2020-2.jpg\" data-fancybox-group=\"gallery\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.on-art.net\/tn.php?img=pictures\/aylin-onart-devir-dergisi-temmuz-2020-2.jpg&amp;s=120\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<td align=\"center\" valign=\"middle\" bgcolor=\"#EBEBEB\"><a class=\"fancybox\" title=\"On-Art :: Sayfa 3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.on-art.net\/pictures\/aylin-onart-devir-dergisi-temmuz-2020-3.jpg\" data-fancybox-group=\"gallery\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.on-art.net\/tn.php?img=pictures\/aylin-onart-devir-dergisi-temmuz-2020-3.jpg&amp;s=120\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"clearfloat\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"social_block\">\n<p align=\"center\">\n<div class=\"addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style\" align=\"center\">\u00a0<span class=\"addthis_separator\">&#8211;<\/span>\u00a0<a class=\"addthis_button_expanded\" href=\"http:\/\/www.addthis.com\/bookmark.php?v=250&amp;pub=xa-4accab923ac47447\">Daha Fazlas\u0131<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div align=\"center\"><\/div>\n<div align=\"center\"><\/div>\n<div align=\"center\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u015e\u0130DDET\u0130 \u00d6NLEMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N DAHA NE BEKL\u0130YORUZ? \u015e\u0130DDET\u0130 \u00d6NLEMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N DAHA NE BEKL\u0130YORUZ? 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